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People that feel like Home.

A community providing intimate spaces for those discovering how to intentionally live beyond conventional labels.

Non-profit. Paid membership. Based in London. For those aged 22 to 35.
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Uniquely different members.
Same shared values.

  • Black and white symmetrical floral pattern with rounded petals and a central dot.

    Respectful Curiosity

    Ask with the intention to learn. Listen fully to the answers.

  • A black and white geometric heart made of various triangle shapes.

    Emotional Bravery

    An openness to share our challenges and confront their solutions.

  • Black and white icon of four hands overlapping in a square formation, symbolizing teamwork or unity.

    Collective Responsibility

    Leave the people, places and projects in a better way than we found them.

  • Black and white right-pointing arrows in a geometric pattern

    Purposeful Action

    Think in decades, act in hours. Ship ideas before they’re ready.

  • Black and white spiral pattern with curved shapes forming a circular design.

    Seriously Silly

    Discuss the topics that matter. But, don’t be afraid to laugh along the way.

A group of friends gathered around a foosball table, smiling and enjoying each other's company at a social event in an indoor recreational space.

We weren’t meant to do this alone.

In 2023, I gathered a small group of curious humans in the South Downs.
We lit a campfire. Shared stories. Laughed until our faces ached. And in that moment,
I realised that none of us were meant to figure out who we are in isolation.

So I created the undefinable community.

A home for those in the Age of Discovery, where careers don’t follow ladders, identities don’t fit boxes, and life isn’t meant to be linear. A space where we’re curious, brave, purposeful, responsible and sometimes a little silly.

To protect its soul, I made the decision to keep it non-profit.
Every pound contributed is reinvested into the people, places and projects that make this community come alive.

This isn’t about scale. It’s about depth.

Welcome to your tribe.

— Charlie

The path is personal.
The space is shared.

Not alone, but alongside.
How we show up for each other.

  • Group of people gathered around a table outdoors, eating and socializing, with a grill and lush green trees in the background.

    Meet-ups

    One-off events hosted by members to discover new interests and support other undefinables.

  • Group of people participating in a muddy outdoor adventure race, smiling and covered in mud, standing in a muddy water area surrounded by tall green grass.

    Clubs

    Weekly interest groups to explore existing passions like films, books, arts and accountability.

  • A wooden dining table set up for a meeting with ten white face masks, notebooks, a water bottle, and a few other items in a room with brick walls and large windows, decorated with green potted plants.

    Explorations

    Monthly themed afternoons to explore being undefinable through self, paired and group reflection.

  • Group of smiling people forming a circle, looking down at the camera against a blue sky.

    Retreats

    Quarterly 3-day trips outside of the city where 25 of us explore one of our values together.

  • A diverse group of people attending a discussion or panel in an art-filled room with paintings on the wall and large indoor plants.

    Birthdays

    Yearly get together to celebrate the community growing up and introducing new features.

Not just another group chat.
A community to be you.

You’ll Receive.

  • A tribe to be a part of.

  • Included access to Explorations & Birthdays.

  • Free community merch (Water bottle for 2025/26).

  • Weekly member-led Clubs & Meet-ups in London.

  • Invites to quarterly Retreats (additional fee ~£150).

  • Community channels to plan, inspire and share.

You’re Expected To.

  • Pay the contribution fee (£180/year, pro-rated quarterly).

  • Attend and lead IRL events when you have the capacity.

  • Show up for others in the community.

  • Share your talents and thoughts with others.

  • Adhere to our code of conduct.

All funds are 100% reinvested. No ads. No sales pitches. No hidden agendas.

Just people, like you, showing up for each other.

Not just testimonials.
Real lives, real shifts.

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    "It feels like there’s a web of interconnectedness between every member of this group here… an invisible line connecting all of us to one another"

    — Izzy Prior

  • A smiling man wearing a gray coat and tie, standing in front of a gray wooden wall.

    "I was actually super blown away that every time I openly shared the stuff I'm going through, pretty much everyone understood how it feels and many of us had been through the same experience before!"

    — Sheen Chin

  • A portrait of a man with a shaved head and full beard, looking directly at the camera with a neutral expression, against a dark gradient background.

    "A lot changed in my life in 2024. The most positive shift was making the undefinable community a central part of it. I’ll never stop shouting about how special this group is."

    — John Mouratis

This isn’t for everyone.
But it might be for you.

We’re currently welcoming new members on a rolling basis for our London chapter.

To protect the intimacy of the group, we follow a simple onboarding flow to get to know each other:


Application Form
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Member seconding
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Piloting at an event

Register your interest below, and we’ll be in touch within 7 days.